thank you chris, i'll try that.
also GM Thessaly responded back to my email and here is what he/she said if anyone else is having the same issue...
Greetings,
For Checksum errors, please try the following:
1) Disable your antivirus and firewall software
2) If using Vista, disable UAC (User Account Control)
3) Attempt to auto-patch again.
If you still cannot patch, you may need to use a standalone patch.
These patches are located here, and will depend on which version you are
getting a checksum error with:
ftp://ftp.funcom.com/cd/patches/
Right now the most recent patches are here:
Free client:
ftp://ftp.funcom.com/cd/patches/AOPatch ... 18.1.0.exe
Paid client:
ftp://ftp.funcom.com/cd/patches/AOPatch ... .0_EP1.exe
If you need another version, please use CTRL-F in your browser to
search for your version number, as the files may not appear in order. As
of 18.1.0, all patch files are available at
ftp://ftp.funcom.com/cd/patches/
4) If all else fails, you may need to consider a clean reinstall with
antivirus and UAC disabled, and try the standalone patches again if
auto-patching fails.
I apologize for the inconvenience.